My Practice Transcends Traditional Life Coaching
Many clients with whom I work either have had or have considered a traditional life coach. I applaud and honor that because it is a very healthy sign.
Although traditional life coaching is a discipline of which I am aware, by itself it simply does not go deep enough.
Traditional life coaching, by most definitions, is a method of directing, instructing and training a person with the aim to achieve some goal or develop specific skills. Largely, this is a process of pushing a person towards a specific goal or milestone. It’s less of a journey of self-discovery and a bit more like a march towards a certain predetermined (possible) destination. This focuses on the business of life expressed in written goals.
There are times in a growth cycle when this methodology may have helped you. If you want to bring forward your genuine self and are projecting your most authentic, worthwhile, and most satisfying desires into future goals, then this forced march could hold you back and actually keep you from attaining your intimate relationship goals.
Life coaching looks towards the future attempting to bring the images, feelings, and realities still to be created back into the present. The difficulty with that is there is no stable present when you only surround yourself with images and feelings that have yet to come to pass. There’s really no emotional foundation to support that future.
In the Charles Dicken’s classic tale, “A Christmas Carol,” this period is portrayed as the ghost of things yet to come. No one pretends any of these visions are real today. Alternately, my clients and I celebrate and joyously express our most innermost loves and desires in the Christmas present…which is a truly joyous experience.
Normal psychological counseling may easily be compared, in Dicken’s story, as the ghost of things past – impossible to change.
We’ll Work Together In The Here and Now
My clients and I work in the here and now (Christmas present) – preferring to forgo working on the business of life to concentrate on the joy of living fully today. Our concentration is to uncover the deepest and most authentic you that can be accessed. I promise there is a very good, loving, and joyful person inside every human spirit just looking for a way to surface and be acknowledged.
The authentic you is the finest you that you can be.
In our work together, we will strive to bring forth that caring, loving spirit already inside you. It will be allowed to come forth and flourish in the nurturing environment that I will help you to create during our time together. With the skills I bring to you, it will be impossible for your authentic feelings, hopes, dreams and aspirations to stay hidden. We will bring forth the authentic you so you can then build your genuine life.
Many of my clients remark that, after working with me, they feel released, refreshed and immediately joyous. They feel uplifted in life. Isn’t this something you deserve?
Perhaps the second part of our work together is, by far, the most important and powerful. It’s doesn’t bring maximum value to you if we only uncover joy and mute your inner critic. We actually transform your inner critic so it can become a useful part of your life. What would that be like?
As we deal in the here and now, I will assist you in expanding your capacity to physically manifest your desired results in the world of today. Unlike the life coaching model of concentrating on the future, we will work together to manifest the best life, feelings and realities for the present time.
Why focus on being fabulous in the far future when you can feel Not So Good Right Now!
We will uncover and delve into your essential being, where all the best of you is waiting to be accessed and developed. My unique blend of spiritual guidance will lead you in becoming clear and energetically aligned with your most fulfilling aspirations. As a result, you will feel more naturally inspired and eager to move into the organized and timely action that will make a real difference in life.
This is not anything like a forced march. No. You will be inspired to walk the path of progress that you (yourself) have had revealed to you by your inner self. It’s truly a journey here toward the lightness of being which you have uncovered. Your spiritual energy will naturally propel you forward towards the greater fulfillment and the love you crave.
I don’t work with just anyone. I can only be successful with clients who are willing to be responsible for working forward on their own revealed and inspired direction. My only agenda is your agenda. However, we must be open and authentic with each other as we communicate. You don’t need to hide your candid self from me.
You can derive great benefit from my tested, tried and true new client introduction process. First of all – I’ll forgo completely any initial fee. We’ll have a no-obligation, relaxed visit on the phone. I open myself up to you and your needs during a free dual-analysis consultation. As I listen to you, you can also listen to my heart and easily tell – at the end of our visit – if we might be a match. There’s no pressure during this exploratory, and extraordinary, free telephone conversation. It’s just a conversation.
This is my invitation to schedule a call with me. I’d love to hear from you. Think about it. Consider it. I’m here for you– always – in the present.