Communication Issues and Betrayed Trust

Communication Issues Can Cause Very Painful Experiences

When someone betrays our trust…we usually feel pretty pissed off about it… Communication IssuesOR we might feel badly hurt and withdraw.  Do yourself a favor and don’t stop there. If you want to help make sure that it doesn’t happen to you again then become open to exploring what you can learn about yourself and what choices you made or didn’t make to contribute to this very painful outcome. Your first mission, if you choose to accept it, is to focus on developing your own trustworthy, reliable, accountable relationship with yourself.

In life, when we value ourselves…when we truly respect ourselves then we feel worthy.  That is when we KNOW that we have the right to do our due diligence in all of our relationships, whether with a significant other, friend, business professional, co-worker or even the repairman.

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Communication Issues With Self: The Worst of Them All!

Inner Critic Strikes Again

Worst of Communication IssuesOne of the most destructive communication issues is the one that we have with ourselves when we get stuck in regret. Regret is a form of self-criticism. Regretting our choices from the past keeps us locked into a negative feeling. Our goal as humans is to grow and develop by learning from our successes and our mistakes alike. That is how we make progress. Making ourselves miserable from past experiences hampers our growth. What if we learned from our mistakes and began to feel good about them? Would our mistakes be any less joyous than our successes? It is through our challenging experiences along the way that we develop ourselves.

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Law of Attraction and Manifesting 101

How to Consciously Use the Law of Attraction to Manifest Your Heart’s Desire

Law of AttractionFirst of all,  though nowadays many people are aware of these metaphysical concepts, we still meet some who are are not.  So then, what IS the law of attraction and what does manifesting actually mean?
The word manifesting means making something real. It’s different than the common practice of goal achievement where we decide on what we want and then take the necessary steps to the successful completion of that goal.

Manifesting begins similarly in that it is important to be clear about what you want to create. However, unlike goal setting that is primarily focused on action, manifesting focuses more on the use of our imagination and feelings along with inspired action to help us create what we want in our lives. This approach can be deeply rewarding and gratifying.

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Inner Critic Holds the Secret to Your Success

Do you really want to know the secret of your success? I will tell you a secret about yourself that you may not have known. If only I had known this secret when I first started out in life, I would have saved myself much suffering. And maybe because I was young and foolish, I would not have listened. So, YOU be the judge. Will you listen or will you brush it aside?

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Val’s Unique Approach

Val’s coaching, counseling and communication work is his own unique blend of spiritual counseling, transformational coaching, hypnotherapy, neurolinguistic programming (NLP), law of attraction education and intuition. These modalities work magically together to help you in empowering ways. Powerful Synergy For Living The Authentic Life SPIRITUAL COUNSELING helps you to connect with your deepest life purpose … Read more

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