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Communication Issues and Betrayed Trust

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Communication Issues Can Cause Very Painful Experiences

When someone betrays our trust…we usually feel pretty pissed off about it… Communication IssuesOR we might feel badly hurt and withdraw.  Do yourself a favor and don’t stop there. If you want to help make sure that it doesn’t happen to you again then become open to exploring what you can learn about yourself and what choices you made or didn’t make to contribute to this very painful outcome. Your first mission, if you choose to accept it, is to focus on developing your own trustworthy, reliable, accountable relationship with yourself.

In life, when we value ourselves…when we truly respect ourselves then we feel worthy.  That is when we KNOW that we have the right to do our due diligence in all of our relationships, whether with a significant other, friend, business professional, co-worker or even the repairman.

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Communication Issues With Self: The Worst of Them All!

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Inner Critic Strikes Again

Worst of Communication IssuesOne of the most destructive communication issues is the one that we have with ourselves when we get stuck in regret. Regret is a form of self-criticism. Regretting our choices from the past keeps us locked into a negative feeling. Our goal as humans is to grow and develop by learning from our successes and our mistakes alike. That is how we make progress. Making ourselves miserable from past experiences hampers our growth. What if we learned from our mistakes and began to feel good about them? Would our mistakes be any less joyous than our successes? It is through our challenging experiences along the way that we develop ourselves.

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Inner Critic Holds the Secret to Your Success

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Do you really want to know the secret of your success? I will tell you a secret about yourself that you may not have known. If only I had known this secret when I first started out in life, I would have saved myself much suffering. And maybe because I was young and foolish, I would not have listened. So, YOU be the judge. Will you listen or will you brush it aside?

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Val’s Unique Approach

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Val’s coaching, counseling and communication work is his own unique blend of spiritual counseling, transformational coaching, hypnotherapy, neurolinguistic programming (NLP), law of attraction education and intuition. These modalities work magically together to help you in empowering ways. Powerful Synergy For Living The Authentic Life SPIRITUAL COUNSELING helps you to connect with your deepest life purpose … Read more

Fears and Anxiety Keep Us Stuck

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Hello from Val and Jeanette. Here is one of our favorite little stories. We believe that stories are one of the best, most enjoyable forms of learning. Through metaphor, stories evoke images and emotions that help us with our own personal growth. They can actively engage our imagination, which is the doorway to our natural genius. In her following story, Portia Nelson so beautifully describes the process of change and how our fear and anxiety transforms with developing awareness.

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Spiritual Issues

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The Authentic Life Connection with Divine Spirit Why are you here and what is the authentic meaning of your life? Do you feel disconnected from your most fulfilling relationship of all, Divine Guidance? Are you too busy to devote time to the stuff that really matters? Are you lacking inspiration in your life, love and relationships? … Read more

Mind and Body Issues

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A Fulfilling Relationship Between Mind and Body What is your body trying to tell you? Do you feel helpless about improving your health? Do you push yourself so hard that you get headaches, backaches or other chronic pains? Do you experience a lot of stress, fear and anxiety in your life? Do you ignore how … Read more

Relationship Issues

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Do you Know How to Build Lasting, Fulfilling Relationships AND Feel Valued For Who You Really Are? Val Will Give You the Answers and Solutions You Need! Having TROUBLE with Love and Relationships? Feeling DISILLUSIONED, FRUSTRATED or ALONE? Spending more time FIGHTING than you are caring about each other? Or maybe…you’re single, with NO LUCK … Read more

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